Brené Brown on Empathy
What it is
A short animated RSA piece with Dr Brene Brown's voiceover on the difference between empathy and sympathy. She argues that real connection requires getting in touch with your own vulnerability, rather than trying to fix someone's pain.
Why Hacker News recommends it
Recommended as a quick, memorable explanation of how to support someone in pain without making it about yourself.
- 3 people recommended it
- 3 different months
- 0 strong recommendations
- first 2013, last 2020
What HN commenters said
“her books have made me a better friend when my friends are in pain.”
Brown's research-based work improves how you support friends
neilk, 2013-12 · Recommendation · in “Ask HN: What book changed your life in 2013?”
“If you're interested in empathy, I suggest you watch this brenee brown video.”
Brown's research on shame and vulnerability, relevant to empathy
andrewtbham, 2016-01 · Recommendation · in “Is it the Wealth Gap that's bad or the Empathy Gap that comes with it?”
“the video was still useful for me. It's less than 3 minutes long.”
Under three minutes on connection versus problem-solving
rpdillon, 2020-10 · Recommendation · in “How to deal with extreme physical pain”
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Topics: empathy, vulnerability, emotional support, brene brown, animation
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